I mean... even deciding on a question mark image for this post has 1 gajillion choices!?!
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To be fair: Yes....... it's wonderful to be able to totally customize your day. And yes........ I'm lucky that I have a budget and the support/opportunity to really make these decisions myself. But whew!
This example is from the music guys, aka the entertainment company I've hired for our live music & DJ. But it's pretty representative of evvvvvvverything I've been doing lately.
And with no exaggeration, that is ~15% of what they asked me.
It's time to take a deep breath, remember each decision is not absolutely critical, life-or-death, make-or-break a wedding choice. I'll answer each one: honestly, thoughtfully, and in time.
Did you ever feel like there were wayyyyyyyyy too many questions to answer??
This example is from the music guys, aka the entertainment company I've hired for our live music & DJ. But it's pretty representative of evvvvvvverything I've been doing lately.
- How long before the ceremony would you like music played? (Er, 30 mins?)
- What type of music? (Um, it's a classical guitarist... whatever he does?)
- Do you want to be introduced at the reception? (Yes.)
- To what music? (No clue.)
- Do you want your party introduced? (Er, yes.)
- To what music? (No clue.)
- Together or separately? (Uh, separately.)
- In what order? (Eh, no clue.)
- Will there be a toast or a blessing? (Erm, a blessing.)
- Said by who? (Uh, my dad. After I get around to asking him.)
- What kind of music do you want during dinner? (Normal dinner music?)
- Will you be cutting the cake? (Yes.)
- What music? (Seriously, you choose cake cutting music.......!)
- What is the overall theme of the music you'd like for the dancing? (Um, slow and fast? Mostly modern? *Mr. SB you are in so much trouble for not being here with me!)
- What is a group both of you really enjoy dancing to? (Er, JayZ is an inappropriate answer and I'm mostly drawing a blank on any other music group in existence.)
- Do you want to end the evening on a high/fast or low/slow note? (Wait, I'm supposed to choose the END of my wedding... right now?!)
Ok, please stop!! Bride is overwhelmed.........
And with no exaggeration, that is ~15% of what they asked me.
It's time to take a deep breath, remember each decision is not absolutely critical, life-or-death, make-or-break a wedding choice. I'll answer each one: honestly, thoughtfully, and in time.
Did you ever feel like there were wayyyyyyyyy too many questions to answer??
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