Sensitive subject, tipping is. I tend to over tip, to Mr. SB's chagrin. We ate a diner the other day, $16 or so for the bill. Seeing as I n.e.v.e.r. have change, I had a $5 that I was happy to leave and he was shocked. In my mind, the extra $2 doesn't make a big difference to me but maybe the waitress (who obviously doesn't make a ton of money) will appreciate the "big" tip. Or maybe I'm delusional. Whatever.
(Counterpoint: Mr. SB tells me it's not my job to make up for salary injustice in the world by paying more for my meals.)
Anyway, this wedding business... we're paying some people a bomb-diggity amount for their services already. And some people own their own business while others work for companies. So who to tip? And how much? (*Seriously... there are MORE decisions to make?!)
Probably WILL tip:
- Guitarist - works for an entertainment company
- Violinist - same as above
- DJ - same as above
- Priest
Probably will NOT tip:
- Civil officiant - charging us a (large) flat fee for services
- Pianist - charging a us a (smaller, but still large) flat fee for services
- Photographer - works for herself, we're already providing a meal
- Cake baker
- Florist
- Venue owner
Unclear:
- Catering staff - a full 9% surcharge is added as "gratuity" on top of the lots of money we're spending on labor
Am I missing any one? And would you do anything differently? And do you pay by cash or check?
I think I need to hire a decision maker for this last week......